You Deserve To Be Happy!

In this life you deserve to be happy. Although you are aware that not all your dreams will come true, you can be satisfied with what you have, have a peaceful soul and be able to recognize all the good things that happen to you.

Is it selfish to say out loud that you deserve to be happy? Not. Everyone has the right to happiness – just as he has the right to be loved, respected and cherished.

Nothing is more important than the goal of living a happy life. But it is necessary to be aware of one essential thing: there is no point in waiting for someone else to “make you happy”.

To be happy, you have to focus all your attention on yourself.

To be happy, you need to find out what you want and what you don’t want out of life

In fact, you don’t need too many things to be happy. Whoever thinks that happiness consists in the number of zeros in the bank account or in the arsenal of friends in the contact list is sorely mistaken.

You just need to live with dignity and independence and fill your life with things that are really important to you.

• Happiness can sometimes be just an act of modesty or a minimalist concept. This means that the most important thing is to know what you want, to identify your goals and meet them.
• For example, try in your daily life to do only things that you like and make you feel proud of yourself. It is the most precious gift you can give.
• All other elements will become just “accessories”, things or aspects that can work both in your interest and to your detriment.
• Knowing what you want from life is not easy. Some experience is needed to be able to set a set of expectations.
• When you realize that certain personalities are not compatible with yours – if you are an introvert, for example – you realize that you need a small circle of friends and not a whole suite, but this conclusion will only crystallize in your mind. Late.

You deserve to be happy, valued and respected

This is a fundamental rule that you must never forget: in order to put yourself first and to protect your self-esteem, you must understand that you deserve the respect of those around you.

If you do not love yourself first, it is very easy to be misguided or manipulated according to the desires and motivations of others, to the point where you put your own happiness aside.

It’s not worth it. Defend what belongs to you, defend your character, space and personal values. Every man in this world deserves to be respected and valued.

• Parents need to appreciate and respect their children so that they can grow up in an environment that offers them security and happiness. In this way they develop their self-esteem, which they can continue to cultivate on a daily basis.
• To be happy, you also need the respect and love of your partner. Reciprocity is needed in a happy and stable relationship.
•  It is not selfish to say that you deserve to be happy and respected. You deserve the respect of family, friends, co-workers and, of course, your life partner.

In addition, after you learn to respect yourself, you will be able to respect the people around you properly, as you will already know how you would like to be treated.

The goal of your life is to be happy

In life you happen to want many things: a bigger house, an attractive partner, attentive to your needs and modest and a wonderful service. But it is more important to be satisfied with everything your life has to offer.

You may not be able to fulfill all your dreams, but happiness is not a thing: it is composed of moments, people and lived experiences. Try to live with your heart and eyes open, always enjoying the present.

• It doesn’t matter if you don’t have a partner or a lot of friends. Be kind to yourself and learn to count on the fingers of one hand the people who make you truly happy.
• Life is not easy. Sometimes you encounter many obstacles. That is why another aspect to which you must pay special attention is your attitude.
• The approached attitude is a very important thing, as it helps you to face life with a lot of courage and optimism.

• A positive attitude allows you to realize that yes, there are difficult moments, but also some extremely beautiful ones. So be happy every day. You know that if you resist this feeling, you risk being trapped in your own unhappiness.

You must learn to look forward with hope, to put yourself first and to love with simplicity and modesty everything around you. You deserve to be happy!